For anyone dealing with a person, or a group, right now

Signal Check

Tick the situations you met. The page only tells you which are signals to slow down, which mean walk away, which are a line crossed — and what you can do next. You never name the other person, and nothing is stored here: reload and it is gone.

This is not a rating of anyone, and it cannot judge a whole person for you. It lists the common warning signs so you can put a feeling into words. The rules draw on NCSF Consent Counts and a close reading of 80-odd first-person accounts.